Father’s Tale in Daughter’s Words
Celebrating the birth centenary of Bangabandhu Sheikh Mujibur Rahman, his youngest daughter Sheikh Rehana told children about the childhood of Bangabandhu at a function in Scholastica School in Dhaka with the title ‘The Childhood of My Father’. She gave a clear picture of the Father of the Nation Bangabandhu Sheikh Mujibur Rahman who was born in 17th March, 1920 at Tungipara and introduced a nation to the world.
She said, “My grandparents, aunt, mother, and my father himself told those stories to me and the 'Unfinished Memoirs' written by father revealed some others… As it appears, the mellifluous tune of Azan, the lapping of the Madhumoti river, and the birds singing in the sky rang in the birth of this child. The entire village went through a festive mood as the villagers were treated to sweets, clothes were donated to poor men and women, and religious rituals were also performed.”
As a youth, Mujib lent his heart to the poor and helpless, reaching out to them at trying times and helping them by whatever means possible, even donating food from his own barn to starving people, said Rehana.
“Once a natural disaster wreaked havoc on the crops in his region. People were about to die of hunger, which little Mujib couldn’t stand. Requesting my grandparents, he started donating rice from our barn. Along with his little friends, he used to collect rice from door to door and donated that to the people in need.”
Coming of in a large family, young Mujib was raised with love and affection, moving from one lap to the other as the apple of his family's eye.
“He was the gem that everyone loved to see. His two elder sisters cuddled him almost around the clock. He grew up little by little and started learning Bangla, English, Persian, and Mathematics. His initiation in education was through my grandfather,” said Rehana.
“Mujib was a bit different and elderly people in our house, teachers, peasants, boatmen, and everyone else admitted this without any reservation that this kid stood out from his peers. This boy had a big heart and could reach out to anyone who needed help. Some of his feats such as taking off his own shirt to donate it to someone else and sharing food with everyone earned reverence and blessing from the people around him.”
“Little Mujib was curious about everything, asking one question after another to his father, who also answered all his queries. He used to read out the stories of legends, religion, science to him. My grandfather and father Mujib were like friends. While they could share everything without any reservation, their relationship didn’t miss out on mutual respect. My grandfather never resisted his child from undertaking any feat.”
"Once my grandfather returned from Kolkata with a beautiful shawl for Mujib. Clad in that shawl, Mujib went out. After a while, he was coming back and spotted a weak old man shivering in freezing cold under a tree. Mujib took off his shawl and donated it to him. Then he came back home shivering."
Mujib underwent an operation on his eye in his childhood as he had been suffering from eyesight issues. The story of how he had to bear with it, much to his dislike, also came alive through the story narrated by his daughter.
“My grandfather used to buy a lot of books. He used to read out history, geography, English, Bangla, religion, science, literature, the stories about legends and the repression committed by the British regime to his child.”
Mujib was admitted to a missionary school when he came to Gopalganj from Tungipara. He lived in Gopalganj town.
“The beautiful boy with spectacles in his eyes didn’t take time to be in good humour with his friends. As he was older than his peers, they used to call him ‘Miabhai’ or ‘bhaijan’ (a term used to address elder brother).
“This teenage boy had a wonderful characteristic. He could mingle with people of any caste and creed with ease. Whoever got in touch with him became a fan of him. He was like a magnet that could attract everyone around him.”
Sheikh Rehana also narrated how young Mujib along with school teachers and students went from door to door to collect rice and then donated that among starving people.
“Young Mujib was then a popular name in Gopalganj. With his rising popularity came some hurdles as well. Some students and people became envious of him. They started telling negative things about him to my grandfather.
"Sheikh Lutfur Rahman had an unwavering faith in his child. He certainly knew of one or two mischievous acts of his child and believed strongly that his kid couldn’t do anything unjust. If my grandfather inquired about any wrongdoing, Mujib admitted that lowering his head.”
“Young Mujib’s world was colourful with sports, humanitarian activities, and all these. There was an organization called Brotochari that was vibrant with songs and dances. Playing a Dhole (a traditional percussion of this land), they used to sing and dance to narrate the plight and sorrow of men and women. Mujib joined this group as well. That helped the youths stay physically fit and the stories of human plight and sufferings were narrated to people as well.”
Once there was a football competition between students and government employees where Mujib was the captain of the team of students against the team of his father. Finally, Sheikh Lutfur Rahman’s team came out victorious.
Rehana also shared the stories of Mujib’s entry into the political arena.
In 1938, Huseyn Shaheed Suhrawardy and Sher-e-Bangla AK Fazlul Huq went to Gopalganj. While coming back at the end of the programme, Suhrawardy noted down Mujib’s name and address and gave him his Kolkata address.
“While returning, Suhrawardy said, 'Mujib, form an organisation here with Muslim children under the name of Muslim Parishad.' Mujib was on cloud nine hearing this as if he heard exactly what he wanted to hear. That was the beginning of his journey in the politics and that too through someone like Suhrawardy!”
That dreamy world of dauntlessness called it a day and he tied the knot with Fazilatunnesa Renu.
Talking about the stories of her parents, Rehana said, “Mujib’s best friend was Renu. There was nothing in this world that these two friends couldn’t share. They also bid farewell to the world at the same time.”
Reflecting on the impact of Sheikh Lutfur Rahman on his son Mujib, Rehana said, “Sheikh Lutfur Rahman was the most revered person in my father’s life and his teacher as well.”
While talking about Bangabandhu’s assassination to the children, Rehana compared it to the heart-wrenching tale of betrayal depicted in the cartoon, 'The Lion King'.
“Dear kids, you must love to watch cartoons. I love them too. The way the Lion King was betrayed by his close people, Mujib was also betrayed by some of his close people whose envy and conspiracy cut my father’s life short.”
On Aug 15, 1975, Bangabandhu Sheikh Mujibur Rahman was assassinated along with his entire family. Sheikh Hasina and Sheikh Rehana escaped death as they were abroad at the time of the darkest chapter in the country's history.
Referring to the struggle of the two sisters, she said, “We, two sisters, have big broad shoulders for each other. We help and love each other.”